Keeping a relationship happy and loving can seem like a lot of effort when you are juggling all of the responsibilities of life.
However, here are 10 sweet things that you can do to surprise her to keep that love flame burning hot. The great thing is that the tips below will make a big impact but are fairly easy to get done.
Make her a love song play list.
Making her a playlist of songs that she can listen to when she is with you or when you are apart will allow her to hear how much she means to you whenever she wants. Gone are the days of making mixtapes or CDs of love songs. However, you can make her a digital playlist and share it with her via streaming service.
Handwritten Letter
Although handwritten letters now seem like a thing of the past due to all of the digital conveniences that are available. However, a handwritten letter shows the one you love that you really cherish her because you took the time to handwrite a letter. A simple note, slipped under her pillow or into her purse is a sure-fire way to make her smile and feel special. If you are skilled with drawing, you could also draw her a picture or decorate an envelope to go with the letter. A handwritten letter gives her a tangible piece of your love to hold onto. If you find yourself with writer’s block, then you could always write the words to a song that makes you think of her.
Organize her vanity or cosmetic area
There is a chance your woman has collected so many cosmetic products over the years, and her vanity (or even the bathroom) is becoming a little disorganized. Fortunately, there are so many ways to store your beauty products. Spend some time, tidy up for her, and you’ll really put a smile on her face when she gets home.
Take Care of Her Car
Filling up her car is a small but thoughtful gesture especially during the cold winter months. With a full tank of gas, she can go to work or run errands without making an extra stop. After you fill it up, stop at the car wash and get it cleaned as well. You could also take her car to get an oil change saving her from having to wait in line for this tedious errand.
Make her dinner.
You don’t have to be a master chef to prepare a meal for the lady in your life. It truly is the thought that counts. You will be appreciated for taking the time to let her relax while she receives breakfast in bed, lunch at work or a candle lit dinner. If pulling out the pots and pans seems like an overwhelming task, then buy her favorite meal and put it in an attractive dish. But keep in mind, there are so many 30 minute meals, that can wow anyone.
Surprise her with a gift.
Putting a surprise in the fridge for her to find when she comes home from a long day at work will help her to happily transition from a busy day to relaxing at home. This can be done by leaving her a chilled bottle of wine or a romantic snack like chocolate covered strawberries. You can also send her favorite flowers to her job.
Take her on an original date.
You can revisit your romance by recreating one of your original dates. You relive the itinerary of your first date or maybe a significant date like the one where you first told her that you loved her. You could also take her to the place where you first met her and pack a picnic meal.
Make your memories last
A woman loves to know that you cherish the memories from the trips that you have taken, the special events attended and or the lazy days spent cuddled up just as much as she does. A wonderful way to show her that you do is to create a photo book of favorite memories and time spent with her. You can easily take a few photos from your smart phone, upload them onto a photo book maker, arrange the pictures and surprise her. She will cry in happy tears of all of the memories you’ve made together.
Give her a massage.
Buy a couple nicely scented candles some body oil, turn on some relaxing music and dim the lights. This creates the perfect atmosphere for you to help her shake off the stress from a long day. To score extra bonus points, you could have a robe freshly warm from the dryer for her to wear as well as comfortable slippers.
Make a travel bucket list.
Making a travel bucket list tells her that you see her in your future. You can make a list of places that neither of you have been before. You can also make a list of places that one of you have been and would like to revisit as a couple. You list can include local favorites or some far away destinations. To take it a step further, you can even plan out a timeline for the trips by months, years or decades.
As you can see, showing your sweet side to the one you love does not have to be complicated. You can use one, some or all of these romantic gestures to show the lady in your life how much she means to you. You can’t go wrong when expressing your love if you follow these tips.
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