It doesn’t matter what age we are, when we’re meeting someone we’re interested in romantically, those stomach butterflies still come to pay a visit. Odds are, you also want to give the best impression to the person you hope to impress. That’s what an impression is, after all.
Now, it’s important to be aware of your own attitude going into this affair – it’s healthier to know your own worth and to just enjoy spending time with someone you find interesting than hoping they’ll approve of you. If you can do that, you seem much less tied to the outcome and can focus on having a good time regardless.
Ironically enough, looking your best, as an investment in yourself, can help with that mindset. Now, it’s also true that presenting ourselves at our best is also likely to encourage a successful date, but consider that a cherry on top as opposed to the main outcome.So, how might you begin to look your best on a date over the age of 40? Let’s explore that, and more, below:
Highlight Your Natural Features
Trying too hard to cover everything up or chase a style that doesn’t really match you who you are will generally backfire, because it often hides the parts people would actually notice in a good way. If your hair’s looking strong, wear it how it feels most natural, or if your eyes are striking, it’s wise to pick tones that don’t compete with them. That’s not to say you can’t dress yourself up a bit or wear stronger makeup of course, but if you feel like yourself on a date, you’re more ready to show who you are. Then you’re more capable of seeing if the natural spark or match is there.
Accessories A Little & Have Fun
It’s fun to have an accessory that shows your personality, as long as you pick one (or several) that feel like they belong with what you’re wearing and with who you are. A scarf might be perfect if you naturally like layered looks, or perhaps a simple necklace that sits just right and doesn’t compete with your neckline can work. Go for pieces that enhance rather than distract, things that feel like natural extensions of your style rather than costume pieces you’re trying on for size, or anything too gaudy unless that’s how you normally express yourself. Often, simple but beautifully designed silver jewellery is a safe bet.
Wear What Helps You Feel Empowered
Wearing clothes that make you feel like the best version of yourself shows up in how you carry yourself and how you interact with your date. Make sure it’s fitted well to you, such as a more formal blazer that fits perfectly across your shoulders, or trousers that make you feel tall and put together, or a dress that moves with you and doesn’t leave you feeling exposed at all.
Feeling good in what you’re wearing will let you be more present and engaged during your date instead of tugging at sleeves or worrying about whether something looks right, so you can actually focus on the conversation and the person sitting across from you. How we dress can involve how we connect with others, as you can see.
With this advice, you’re sure to look your best on a 40+ date.