Traditionally, the man proposes to the women in heterosexual couples. While this isn’t a written rule or law about who should propose, it’s somehow deemed less socially acceptable for the woman to make the first move.
Or at least it was.
But we’re in 2022! Times have changed and gender norms and traditions are becoming less important. Nowadays, anything is possible and the unspoken rules of love and romance are diminishing.
If you’re a woman and you’re coupled up with a man, there’s no reason why you shouldn’t propose to your partner. If marriage is on your mind and you feel ready to take that next step in your relationship, go for it!
We know that proposing as a woman is much easier said than done. As progressive as 2022 is, many people still hold traditional beliefs around marriage.
For those of you who want to take the leap and propose to your man, here are some top tips to make the process easier for you.
Find the Perfect Ring
The ring that you choose is a central part of your proposal. Although it’s the sentiment behind it that truly matters, it’s important to find the perfect ring for your partner.
Once you have determined the size of your partner’s ring finger, you can start shopping around for the perfect ring. There is an increasing number of jewelry brands offering men’s rings. You aren’t short on choice!
Think about the type of metal, the shape, and the colors of the ring. Consider your man’s style preferences and view several rings in person to visualize how they will look on your partner’s finger.
Make sure you are buying from a trusted jeweler that is professional, helpful and has a range of positive reviews.
Find a Special Proposal Location
Another important part of your exciting proposal is the location. Is there a special place that you and your partner both love? If not, what kind of surroundings do you want for your proposal?
Some people can’t bear the thought of a public proposal, while others love the attention. Some men love the idea of a proposal at home and some would be over the moon with a surprise proposal on vacation.
Think about your partner’s interests and decide whether they’d prefer a quiet and private proposal or a more extravagant public scenario.
Hire a Professional Photographer
If you want to reminisce on your proposal for years to come, consider hiring a professional photographer to capture the special moment. They can hide in the bushes or wait outside the front door of your home, ready to jump into action when you pop the question.
The photographer can take several images to create a storyboard of the whole event. You can print out the photos and keep them in a scrapbook to make the special moment last a lifetime.
You can capture your partner’s reaction in real-time and view the experience from an outsider’s perspective. If you love the photographer, you can use them as your wedding videographer too!